Get the World to Work for You, Not Against You
Do you know people who believe the whole world is conspiring against them? Everything is negative, nothing goes their way, and it’s as if a…
People Want to Relate to You: The Power of Perspective in Communication
I remember seeing an interview with Bill Gates a while ago. They asked him how he was able to accomplish so much, and he replied,…
Who Is Your Success Role Model? Why Relatable Role Models Matter
To succeed in life, it helps to be inspired by role models—people who show us what’s possible. But sometimes we choose role models who feel…
: Flip Your World: How Changing Your Perspective Changes Your Life
This one is about seeing your world in a completely new way. I remember growing up in the Midwest of the United States when I…
Quit Pushing: How to Lead People by Pulling, Not Forcing
Today I was looking out from the second floor of a building when I noticed a man walk up to a dimly lit Japanese restaurant.…
The Most Valuable Thing You Own: Your Attention
What is the most valuable thing you own? Some might say their house. Others might say their investments. Some might even say their relationships, because…
Don’t Follow Your Instincts: The Power of Pausing Before You React
Have you ever been told to “follow your instincts”? It sounds inspiring, but it’s not always good advice. Behavioral psychologists explain that our mind works…
Care, But Don’t Over-Care: Finding Peace During Election Season
Today I was at the doctor’s office and overheard a woman talking about the upcoming election. She said that everyone she knows is on the…
How to Stay Motivated: The Habit-Based Approach
The key to staying motivated long-term is habits. We often feel like we need something external to motivate us—a video, a speech, a person, a…
What’s an Ambivert? Understanding Your True Social Style
How many times have you heard someone say, “I’m an introvert” or “I’m an extrovert”? We tend to think we are born one way and…