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The speaker discusses the common response to the question “How are you?” – “Busy” or “Crazy.”
He argues that these responses, while seemingly innocuous, can inadvertently create stress for both the speaker and the listener.
• Unconscious Stress: When we say we’re “busy” or “crazy,” we often subconsciously project that stress onto others. The listener may then feel overwhelmed by their own busy schedules and the perceived stress of the speaker.
• Unconscious Judgments: People make unconscious judgments about us based on our initial responses. If we consistently portray ourselves as overwhelmed, others may perceive us as negative or difficult to be around.
• The Power of Positive Responses: The speaker suggests replacing “busy” or “crazy” with more positive and engaging responses, such as “I learned some things about patience this week” or “I was surprised at how I can handle a lot of different challenges coming at me all at once.” These responses spark curiosity and encourage deeper conversation.

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