Day 3 — The Reframe

You are not saying no to the person. You are saying yes to something else.   On Day 1 you noticed how many automatic yeses…

Day 2 — The Cost

Your yes has a price. Here is how to see it.   Yesterday you counted your yeses. You probably found more automatic ones than you…

Day 1 — The Awareness

You are probably saying yes to things you do not actually want to do.   This week we are going to spend six days on…

Day 6 — The Reflection

Look back at the week. Name what you are taking with you.   This is the last day of the challenge. You spent five days…

Day 5 — The Hard One

Talking last is easy when you agree. Today you practice when you do not.   You have been holding your opinion and letting others go…

Day 4 — The Impact

What happened when you stopped going first. Yesterday you held your opinion and let others go first. Today you look at what happened. What Did…

Day 3 — Try It

Hold your thought. Let everyone else go first.   You have spent two days watching the pattern and understanding why it matters. Today you do…

Day 2 — Why It Matters

When you speak first, you do not hear what the room was going to say. Yesterday you watched what happens when someone speaks first in…

Day 1 — The Pattern

Watch who talks first. Then watch what happens.   Today is not about changing anything. It is about seeing something that has been happening in…